What is that one thing, you feel most helpless about?
If you ask me, I am my most
shy, whenever I have to tell someone how much they mean to me. Sometimes hoping
to be a mind reader, so that I can carefully plan to talk-it-out at
the right time. But, uncertainty of events has taught me that
it's the best unsaid when expected.
Depending on the circumstances, our fantasies can sometimes take face of our
fears; becoming the unpleasant figments of our imaginations. These seemingly
real, yet completely fictional occurrences take shape within the recesses of
our minds. What they do is simply expose us to a life of what ifs and maybes. Out
of the many fears and phobias, the most astonishing is the fear of confrontation.
We can choose to deny it, underestimate it or ignore it entirely, but after all
that's said and done, all we're doing is merely confirming that it exists.
Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to think about but takes you no where.
The reason why our fears have a tendency to become
overwhelming and confronting is a simple lack of understanding. Whatever we
fail to understand, we also fail to acknowledge, and therefore fail to
comprehend the impact it can have on our reality.
There is a universal law that says that nature abhors a vacuum. What that means is that as soon as you give up one thing, another comes in to fill the void. And most often the new thing is better than the old thing you gave up.
- The above quote is out of the book Born Rich and is a positive affirmation.
As you take the first step on talking-it-out,
first odd thing which we mostly miss to do is to give up all the old beliefs.
Approach the person with an open mind much like the empty cup which can be
filled. The other person might or not be a changed person, for better
or worse, but that in no way should affect the new YOU. And you do it by
repeating the positive affirmation above. Once all the unanswered questions,
are answered, you do yourself a favour by gifting yourself a new
magnificent and almost perfect you.
You can bring the change you want to see, only by believing that things can work
out.
Think about it...
If you ask me, I am my most
shy, whenever I have to tell someone how much they mean to me. Sometimes hoping
to be a mind reader, so that I can carefully plan to talk-it-out at
the right time. But, uncertainty of events has taught me that
it's the best unsaid when expected.
Depending on the circumstances, our fantasies can sometimes take face of our fears; becoming the unpleasant figments of our imaginations. These seemingly real, yet completely fictional occurrences take shape within the recesses of our minds. What they do is simply expose us to a life of what ifs and maybes. Out of the many fears and phobias, the most astonishing is the fear of confrontation. We can choose to deny it, underestimate it or ignore it entirely, but after all that's said and done, all we're doing is merely confirming that it exists.
Depending on the circumstances, our fantasies can sometimes take face of our fears; becoming the unpleasant figments of our imaginations. These seemingly real, yet completely fictional occurrences take shape within the recesses of our minds. What they do is simply expose us to a life of what ifs and maybes. Out of the many fears and phobias, the most astonishing is the fear of confrontation. We can choose to deny it, underestimate it or ignore it entirely, but after all that's said and done, all we're doing is merely confirming that it exists.
Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to think about but takes you no where.
The reason why our fears have a tendency to become overwhelming and confronting is a simple lack of understanding. Whatever we fail to understand, we also fail to acknowledge, and therefore fail to comprehend the impact it can have on our reality.
There is a universal law that says that nature abhors a vacuum. What that means is that as soon as you give up one thing, another comes in to fill the void. And most often the new thing is better than the old thing you gave up.
- The above quote is out of the book Born Rich and is a positive affirmation.
As you take the first step on talking-it-out, first odd thing which we mostly miss to do is to give up all the old beliefs. Approach the person with an open mind much like the empty cup which can be filled. The other person might or not be a changed person, for better or worse, but that in no way should affect the new YOU. And you do it by repeating the positive affirmation above. Once all the unanswered questions, are answered, you do yourself a favour by gifting yourself a new magnificent and almost perfect you.
As you take the first step on talking-it-out, first odd thing which we mostly miss to do is to give up all the old beliefs. Approach the person with an open mind much like the empty cup which can be filled. The other person might or not be a changed person, for better or worse, but that in no way should affect the new YOU. And you do it by repeating the positive affirmation above. Once all the unanswered questions, are answered, you do yourself a favour by gifting yourself a new magnificent and almost perfect you.
You can bring the change you want to see, only by believing that things can work
out.
Think about it...
Think about it...
I liked the way you described the fear of confrontation. A nice read! :-)
ReplyDeleteThank you for reading thru...!! Have a great year ahead!!
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